honestly would not be surprised if this oxygen thief was a rapist himself
Yeah, I actually am. I actually am a rapist because I did sexually abuse my ex-girlfriend, and I hate hate hate myself for it. But I don’t get how it’s the worst thing I could have done?
you ruined someone’s life. do you understand that? that girl will never be the same after what you did to her.
did it make you feel tough? did you feel powerful? did it reassure you of your masculinity? did it make you feel like less of a worthless sack of shit? was it fun to force yourself on her and know that a few moments of fun for you will be a lifetime of trauma, shame and flashbacks for her?
what did she do to deserve it?
i was raped when i was 15 years old. i was just a fucking kid. we were both just kids. the girl you raped was probably just a kid too, considering you’re only 17 right now.
he doesn’t even remember what happened but i never get to forget. not only do i have to live with flashbacks and nightmares about men forcing themselves into me, grunting and groaning and sweating like pigs while i lay frozen in terror, staring at the ceiling, i also have to live with the shame and the guilt that society puts on survivors of rape. people telling me it was my fault, that i should have known not to trust him.
i have friends who have been raped, and when they went to the police, they called her a dirty lying whore. i lost all of my friends when i came out about my rape because they all sided with my rapist. this is not an uncommon thing.
women are already treated badly in our society but it’s like once we’ve been raped our value drops so much that we’re absolutely worthless. nobody fucking cares about what we’ve suffered. no one cares. all people are concerned with is trying to defend the sacks of shit who did this to us. people like you.
if you had any idea what it feels like to have your body violated, to be treated like a disposable object, like absolute subhuman worthless trash, you would know why rape is such a serious, heinous crime, and why victims of rape are filled with so much anger towards our rapists.
i’ve tried to kill myself several times, i’m living with crippling anxiety, depression, and PTSD, and it’s all because one young boy, 3 years ago, didn’t understand that rape is one of the absolute worst things you can do to another human being.
my story is the story of thousands, tens of thousands, millions of women. it’s the story of the girl whose life you ruined. it’s a story that will continue to repeat itself until people like you understand the impact that rape can have on a person.
rape ruins lives. you ruined someone’s life. if it wasn’t illegal to encourage suicide i’d tell you to fucking jump off a bridge.
this is absolutely terrifying and i feel physically sick. rape is a heinous, heinous crime that can severely and horribly impact someone’s life, but people unfamiliar with the reality of rape - most men - NEED to understand that that rape doesn’t just impact rape victims and their rapists, but ALL WOMEN ARE SUBJECTED IN SOME WAY, SHAPE OR FORM to the terror of potentially being raped. rape is a threat. rape is a weapon. ALL WOMEN know someone who was raped, know what usually happens in their country when someone is raped and how useless it can sometimes be to report. ALL WOMEN have pictured a rape in their heads at some point in their life. And if you never have - if you’ve never stopped to considered how it might FEEL, then you’re literal human garbage.